No single person can claim that they are 100% goodness. The term Nice Guy is pretty ambiguous. Hit the streets and ask a bunch of ladies for their definition of 'nice guy' You will probably end up with 101 different sorts of answers. But the truth behind all the answers is actually constant. 'Nice guys' posses a certain kind of quality which makes them loose out terribly to jerks and the so-called bad guys. In the dating world, it is said that nice guys finish last, and it is true indeed. Nice guys have a tendency to be extremely polite, friendly, shy, romantic etc. So, why is this SO bad?

There are a few reasons as to why these squeaky clean guys just lose out to jerks.

#1 Nice guys aren't tough enough

Women love being intimate, just like guys. But the only downfall with these 'nice guys' is that they are too worried to make a physical move, in fear of offending women. Guys are supposed to be the ones in control. The ability to lead at times is a pretty good gauge whether you are man enough for her. By advancing towards her, it shows that you are confident of yourself and the relationship. Try to change your thinking regarding this and start being physical with a woman. It can really help to improve the relationship.

#2 Nice guys are too emotional/clingy/insecure

Nice guys tend to do this. Without them realizing it, this is the ultimate attraction killer. A nice guy tends to do anything to try and keep her once he finds a girl he likes. Woman is the one that is supposed to be emotionally attached to you and not the other way around. Also, do take note that once she is attracted to you, learn to give her some space instead of stalking her around. This insecurity can be pretty annoying for her. She might eventually get uncomfortable and shun you away.

#3 Nice guys are way too shy

Nice guys tend to feel more ashamed or afraid of rejection, if they show any signs of sexual interest. Because of this, they barely want to try out something out of the world. This answer might shock you. Women don't actually like jerks over nice guys, it's just that jerks don't feel the need to hide their sexuality or sexual interest in the woman. By sticking to the norms, you will just bore the girl. In order to have an easier time seducing her, keep your sexuality pumped up all day all night.

#4 Nice guys are too predictable

He asks you out, gives you flowers, brings you to a nice restaurant yada yada… Anything that sounds too common and too TV-show like would definitely refer to your 'nice guy'. Again, this will just bore the girl. Jerks and bad guys might not give you flowers, but they are definitely always full of surprises. No matter how corny or cocky their ideas are, it just help to bring out the uniqueness in these bad guys.

Trust me, even innocent college girls would rather go out with bad boys! So the next time a girl tell you that you are a 'nice guy', watch your back. Maybe it is time for a little attitude change.

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