October 11, 2007
Why don't intelligent men have success with women
If you're reading this, you probably consider yourself smarter than the average guy out there… You are used to being right more times than other people, and it's been this way all your life. But for a certain reason, when it comes to dating women, your smartness doesn’t seem to help. Actually, I’ll tell you this truth: it makes things worse. I know it’s hard to face a situation where your intelligence makes things worse, but for now, just relax and read the reason why smart guys fail with women:
- They are arrogant and can’t seem to see or admit that they are wrong, so they fail once and then just think to their selves “next time it will work”, so they fail a lot of times. Then, realizing it’s not working, they try to build a logic and just don’t seem to find it. They can’t accept that the answer could come from someone probably “dumber” than them… But tell me which one would you prefer: taking advice from a very smart guy who never picks up women, or from a “dumb” one who is always dating and knows how to attract women?
- They usually don’t have good social skills; they can’t communicate that well with people and have fun… And that’s something you don’t learn by thinking about it, you learn it by GETTING it…
- They always try to get more and more information, hoping that they will finally learn the magic trick that will trigger their success with women. But actually, most of the times they already have the right information, what it takes is trying it in the real world. Stop thinking and act! But these guys are so afraid of failing that they don’t even try.
- They often think that being “nice” is the “smart” thing to do. The raw truth is that it’s actually what prevents them from having success. Women don’t like wussies, they like unpredictable and mysterious guys. Girls know any guy could be “nice” to them, like buying them gifts and paying expensive dinners, so they avoid it.
- Some guys just freeze up in social situations. They’re biggest strength is their mind, but they can’t work out their emotions. So they get so nervous that they don’t do anything. They freeze. Pretty pathetic, though.
I consider myself a smart guy too, and I was able to fix these problems and things are working for me now. You probably could do too.
For truly understanding all the psychology behind this, and how approaching and attracting women really works, I recommend the Double Your Dating ebook, by David Deangelo. I've read it like 5 times myself and I can tell you: Everytime I read it I figure out something new that happened to me while approaching women and I couldn't understand.
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