Hello Guys

You, my reader, probably know my style already, so I'll start off saying something I think it's very important for you to understand: FORGET those "signals" people say you should look for when talking to a woman to tell she's interested, for example watching “if she licks her lips" or if she "waves her hair", or if she "tilts her head"… That's ridiculous.

It’s ridiculous because it rarely happens in real world situations… You could observe it all day in man-and-woman interactions and see none of these signals, yet it doesn’t mean women aren’t attracted to any men. To start getting the real “signals” that she’s interested, you have to first learn how to trigger a strong ATTRACTION inside her towards you.

Answer this very honestly: when you are at a bar, and you spot a very beautiful woman, do you know exactly what you have to do in order to make her feel attracted to you? Would you just freeze and do nothing, or maybe ask her to dance or offer to buy her a drink? Well… None of these things would EVER make her fall in love with you, no matter who you are.

The next time you are at a social situation, try this: instead of complimenting women and paying them drinks, make fun of them, bust their balls. Make them laugh. I know, it probably sounds “offending”, but it’s not: women do enjoy having fun and they will actually like what you’re doing. Tease them, bust on them, be difficult. Why?

This way you will communicate that you don’t care what she thinks of you, that you are a fun and unpredictable person and that you “GET IT”. If you don’t believe me, try it and you’ll see the truth.

Now, let me answer your first question: How can I tell if she’s interested? It’s pretty simple, actually: if she answers positively to my engagement, then it’s on! Let me give you an example:

If I’m in a restaurant and the hostess asks how many people are there in my party, and I answer “We are three… But there will be four of us if you join us…” and she laughs at this joke, you can bet she’s interested.

So, basically what I’m saying is: STOP watching for “signals” and start doing things that trigger interest. If women engage, then it’s ON. Simple.

For truly understanding all the psychology behind this, and how approaching and attracting women really works, I recommend the Double Your Dating ebook, by David Deangelo. I've read it like 5 times myself and I can tell you: Everytime I read it I figure out something new that happened to me while approaching women and I couldn't understand.

Check out this Double Your Dating report that you should read right now if you are interested in getting more advanced.